Mike, he oughta' go ahead and have some fun with her. But is his wife filed for divorce only 14 months ago, he shouldn't even be thinking of getting remarried anytime in the next 3 or 4 years. If he does, he's every bit as stupid as Sol suggested, and has it coming to him. If he marries this broad or any, sooner than that, no matter how good she seems or is, even if she's a saint, he is perfect evidence of a flat learning curve. If he's gonna' be single, he also should make it a goal to date at least a half dozen women before he even thinks about getting remarried so that he has some frame of reference. Not to mention it's just plain smart and a bit of fun to play the field before settling down again.