i akin the attitude you have to have to a sales technique i learned

" when you talkin on the phone theres always a sale...whether they sell you on an excuse or you sell them on what you want them to do or buy. are you going to let them sell you? or are you going to close the deal...

make it seem valuable..and act like its hard to get...human nature takes over after that.......

give a little...take alot....

AND WHEN SOMEONE DOESNT KNOW YOU, OR YOU ARE TALKING TO THEM ON THE PHONE...YOU CAN BE ANYONE YOU WANT"

The last bit is not a license to decieve...more like...if you have trouble iwth it...act like your F***in James Bond. Get the posture, the slow but witty responses, slow deliberate movements. After you act like him enough...you can glean from the personality what you need to become more successful in picking up women or closing the deal. It becomes a part of you. Its fun..and grows you as a person...gives another facet to your personality. is it you? hell ya it is. Just take what you need from the personality and add it to your own...then it becomes you..

dont treat it like a mask that you can put on when you go out or when you ONLY talk to women...that will screw you up emotionally, not to mention when they get to know you they will go WTF? you were not this pussified when i first met you.. make it a game...revel in the success's you have with it and mold it to fit you.