Todd, ditto here too (8 years) but I'm starting to get some pressure and I feel the walls closing in.....she told me she wants a ring by December, so I need to make some serious decisions soon!

Might be a bluff but you never know? Hate to lose her but not sure if I want to get married for the second time? ughhhhhhh
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He who joyfully marches in rank and file has already earned my contempt. He has been given a large brain by mistake, since for him the spinal cord would suffice.

- Albert Einstein.