its all worth it...except the kids thing...when i got divorced five years ago around this time it was very worth it...we didnt fight much, just went different ways...i remember the day i got married to my first, i thought "what the heck did i do?"...maybe its cause he took me to the movies in 6th grade, and he was my best freind...but it seamed that he changed everything the day we got married...i was my husbands WIFE!..i think i got married too early, and i was 24...not ready for me...

the day i told him that i wanted a divorce he told me "do you realize that this means i will no longer be your freind, and you will no longer be able to see me anymore?" that was the hard part...cause he was a good person, and i belive he still is...we just went different ways, and he didnt fish...he told me he could learn to like to fish, but i was not willing to go that path anymore...i knew it was over...

im soooo very lucky there were no kids...that would be the hardest thing...

but i do have to admit, i cried like a little girl the day it was over, after i left the court house...he was not even there, it was just the day i knew it was over...but then i went out and partied...

so i guess my moral of the story is...make sure your friends are around the day its final...takes the edge off of remembering the good times, cause there was a reason you married her in the first place, just people change...

that moral was supposed to sound better...good luck...c