No end of thread......and no soup for you!
Sol, dude, duuuuude....I feel for you man and I understand your pain. There is more to this dog deal than meets the eye.
First of all, she got a dog because she wanted a dog for quite some time. I'll bet she asked you for a dog years ago while you were married, probably asked on occasion all throughout the marriage......but you said "NO" each time she asked and got progressively stronger with your "NO" after each successive inquiry. Right?
Out of respect for you she did not get a dog while you were married. You said "NO" and she respected that. Now that she is making her own decisions there's a dog in the picture. Hmmmmm.....did she do it because she wanted to piss you off? No, she did it because she wanted a dog.
Now, I've got balls I'll defend my bud's no matter what and I agree with you 100% that it's a bullsheit move on her part since the dog is a pain in the ass and it's damaging mutual property..... but...........you've got to understand that she is probably not out trying to get laid like you, me, seastrike and countless other poonhounds on this board. She's probably lonely and the dog is her company. She may even need that dog to cope with the divorce. Think of it as her therapy.
Blue water pro's advice about getting the anti-chewing spray is golden. I wanted to make a hat out of my ex's dog when he was a puppy and chewed the cork to sheit on my Loomis rods. I was pissed.....beyond pissed but she paid the expediter fees for all the rods and soon I had all new rods. Since they were beat to sheit in the first place, it actually worked out in my favor. She also bought a sheitload of that anti-chew spray and just about coated the entire house with the stuff.......it worked like a charm. In time the dog stoped chewing everything, quit pissing and sheiting in the house, and turned out to be a damn good fishing dog.
You got a truck she probably wouldn't approve of if you were married, she got a dog. I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that she's going to do what she wants to now and you have no control over it. My ex does the same stuff and it pisses me off, but she's hot and she still comes over and gives it up even though were not technically together any more. I feel for you, man, it's ok to get pissed about it and you should be. Just remember that she probably needs that dog right now so please don't kill the damn thing.......just feed it a bunch of refried beans before she takes a road trip and the sheitstorm will follow!