Great post. nice pics, anyone know how crystal has been this year?

You ditched your working wife Tim. Richard still has his.

She wasn't "working" for me.

That does make a difference.

My kids are like little spys, listening in on my phone conversations with Sherry and "reporting" back to mom. So, last night after just such an episode the X called me in full blown attack mode. Ugly night at Casa Del Sol. On the up side, we got a court date a week early, so I'm offically divorced TODAY.

Congrats, dude! You deserve it

Thanks, Aunty and Jason. :-)

The best part is after months of meeting girls and collecting phone numbers I've finally found a SUPER cool chick that digs the real me. She likes to fish and has been interested in learning to snowboard for some time. We are compatable on every topic. I look forward to getting her out to meet my friends. I might even get her to launch her own internet idenity here on the board, someday. :-)

Congrats Sol.
I remember my final divorce day as very bitter sweet.
You are going to subject this nice girl to snowboarding and steelheading????? You are a masochist.

Why does the ex think she can say anything to you about your choice in women. The only thing she should care about is that you are good to the girls and that they know that you love them and that they are important to you. She gave up her right to share her opinion about anything else.

I'm not going there. It's time to make peace and move on. I wish her the very best.

Well Tim, congrats the deal is done. At some point down the line we will sit on the beach up on the island and discuss how life continues to improve as time passes. Mark my words the improvements are not modest and nearly instantaneous. Good luck with maintaining a cordial relationship with your ex. I communicate with mine via attorney only still.. I have been divorced for I think close to a decade and I would say the last ten years have been the best of my life. Go and enjoy it...And it appears I missed yet another party on Whidbey......... Im asleep at 10:30 anyway

You are cool, Howard. We really do owe it to ourselves to sit down on a log with beers in hand and BS this summer. I'll look forward to it.

Hell, at least SOL doesn't mean Shiat Outta Ladies.....no need to rush into anything. Next one you get serious over.....just buy her a house and leave....it's cheaper.