"If he can't define it, then he damn sure can't be one either"

I am speaking about judgement not dictionary defininitons. Man cannot judge who is Christian and who is not . Acts outside of acceptance of Christ have nothing to do with who is or who is not. How people see one another has nothing to do with it. Telling someone they cannot be Christian because they do something is just a way of trying to get them to conform to a standard for that person or circumstance. It's like saying you are less female if you do not wear makeup a dress and and high heels everyday. Being Christian is one act and that is between god and the individual.