I apologize, then. I obviously misunderstood the context of your message. I agree with your analogy of tolerating your kids' behaviour. I was using it in the sense that although I may not agree with what two consenting adults are doing to one another, I've been taught to tolerate their actions if legal.

I think I see your concerns with that organization promoting their agenda in schools. My kids (teenage boys) and I have a pretty open dialogue about sex related issues so I personally don't worry about an organization like that showing up. My kids already know the differences of orientation and the need to tolerate their peers even if they are different.

I can't imagine a school would invite an organization to lecture to junior and high school students on such a controversial subject without first notifying parents. If the students attended the lecture at an outside venue, then the parents should be involved enough to know where their kids are going. No?