well i know its been awhile since someone has takin you somewhere nice and treated you...but when i go out with a girlfriend and i surprise her...all i tell her is to dress nice. the girls i hang out with wear heels or stilletos to a nice dinner...so afterward ( if you take a woman JUST out to dinner....it better be the best 100$ you ever spent...because she aint callin back) when we go to the beach or whatever i dont want her to get her feet hurt or cut. Plus its fun and she loves it.

aunty M , i am not interested with a woman that can beat me in arm wrastlin' and has bigger calluses on her feet than i do so she can walk on rocks. i leave those for the other guys.


sigh....as a woman..you can never understand. Thats not it...and you'll never get it unless you have a weekend free where i can sit down and explain like i did to Tonya, Julie, and sarah. I explained it to them...showed them...and proved to them over and over again. Showing it to them was a moot point...they were already shaking their heads and going..." wow...yeah...thats amazing , i guess i never really thought about the things i did or said when it came to men. i just did it" but then i took them out and they laughed at the simpleness of it.


what i talk about isnt long term. the best women out there....are the most guarded. they dont give in right away. they play hard to get. they are fun and engaging, smart. they take time to get to know. If you do the normal stuff right off the bat...you will be a 'normal guy' in her eyes and she will pass you up. If she is fun and attractive...think of how many guys that have approached her? its...almost appalling...in the 50 per day catergory. So i would never condone being a wuss, or acting like the normal joe that has approached her. if the other normal joes didnt have a chance...what makes you think you would? Normal joe is pick up lines, being to 'overbearing' , asking to hang out all the time, being to interested to fast....she knows shes got you right off the bat and there is no mystery anymore....

so no aunty m....i dont condone that...wussies ...suck.





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