Been married 35 years.
The first year she said you can't go fishing, we got in a fight and I dispersed to the OP for a week, no one could find me. When I got home she was pissed so I re-packed and said I will be back in a few days.
She started the whole "you don't love me" thing, hell we were young.
That is when I told her that I got married to Fvck not fight and if all she wants to do is fight then I am going fishing.
34 years later she asks where I am fishing and do I need anything before I go! We never fight at all so that only leaves one thing to do, even after 35 years!
And the best thing---She helped me buy the lodge in Alaska and helps with marketing and I go up 4 times a summer...without her.
Can't beat that after 35 years.