1st scenario, balls in a vise. Oh honey, I love you so much, here's a $10,000 ring to prove it, now what kind of wine do I get for the bunco party? I'm losing weight but this gluten free thing might be ok, as long as you still like it, lover. Even though it quit raining yesterday and the river's green, that fishing thing can wait I really don't want to miss Sex and the City.

2nd scenario, mutual respect. Honey, I'm going fishing tomorrow. And there's good tides so next three days I'll be home after dark, have fun at bunco. Wife, have fun, call if you're going to be real late. remember, we have plans for Thanksgiving.