this is years....Years ...of beating the streets...reading books....hahaha testing stuff out on women. wonce you get it though. its amazing. theres a game going on. No matter who you are, how old you are...there is an interaction "game" so to speak , going on between a man and a woman when they interact on that level.
guys: you ever been talking to a woman....its goin along jsut fine...your thinkin your doin ok...then ...bam....you get this weird vibe like......i think its done...i think i just lost it??? but you dont know why.....or she all of a sudden wont return your calls?? or acts a little weird around you?? its all that physcology that goes with interacting with the opposite sex. you missed something and it basically just hosed you

thank god women can be attracted no matter what you look like because that enables ANY guy to go interact and establish an attraction with ANY women he chooses. ANY!!!!!!
men are totally different. 90% is if we are attracted to the "looks" of a woman. We are all visual. But......thats visually stimulating in our OWN minds. society pushes most men to think that super skinny model types are the way to go. but taste differs. it would have to for the human race to go on. But fit looking women will always be attractive to men because of the fact that , taht is a desireable trait in any mate. visual stimulation. Women are 90% personality stimulation
i have a fat bald friend about 210 lbs 5' 8" .....this man dates some of the hottest women i have ever seen. most of them ...yes...arm candy. but after you date the idiots for awhile you start to narrow down your standards....your morals....and your values. you start being able to get VERy picky.
he finally found one of the most amazing women i have met in my day...drop dead gorgeous....smart....bachelors degree.